Jealousy

Me and my friends started to talk about the good and bad times we went through during our high school time. And we shared some stories. It's not about me, but just to share my thoughts and give some opinion. I can relate to(?) I guess.

Hmm.. So this guy friend right here, I'll just call him "Rio" for the story's sake. Rio has a girlfriend, and she gets jealous easily. Even when Rio is talking to another girl.
But this Rio likes to flirt around with many other girls (who doesn't? It's normal right? It's instinct I think, don't care if the a person is single or not)  and often goes out with his friends without informing her girlfriend, including clubs and even a normal tea time session.

Why? Rio said her girlfriend will get jealous easily and will be mad at him if she knew. So, he decided to not tell her anything and lied to her that he's doing other things.
But this is what I think. Since his girlfriend is a green monster, I think it is better for her to know the truth from him rather than knowing it sooner or later from someone else.

Not only that actually, for a girl, if she knows her other significant is somehow contacting or going out with another girl (who last time has something to do with the guy, eg. an ex-girlfriend, a crush, someone who the guy had court before), don't you think it would make her very insecure.
It's actually not the other girl's fault, but the guys. But often we blame on the third party. It's society. If the guy doesn't make any move to engage, for sure the other party wouldn't do anything since they know they are in a relationship.

........ NO?

But the third party should be smart a bit lah. Don't contact or go out so much with the guy if she knows he's being so secretive. What if next time their bf also do like that to them? Doesn't feel good right? Karma will hit them for sure. So girls/guys, janganlah bodoh sangat. Kenapa nak buat drama drama yang membarakan orang. Tak baik la camtu. Kan kan? Baik jangan layankan orang yang tidak memberi faedah kepada kita. We'll just give ourselves more problems and a really bad name.

If Rio really trust and respect his girlfriend, I think he should tell her girlfriend the truth and at least bring her girlfriend out too when he's going somewhere with his friends instead of keeping a secret from her.
Some times, people can be so dense.